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NEBULA'S REASONS TO SHIFT ; #9

✧ To change the narrative ✍️

i need to get part of my hair dyed purple !!!!!

— SCRIPTING YOUR FAMILY. ( i swear it can work even if they’re not dead )

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— DISCLAIMER. script what you want !! this isn’t judgement or an attempt to convince you of anything. i still have ded family in some realities, don’t worry :^)

alright, so a lot of shifters skip right to scripting their DR families straight into the afterlife. gone, nonexistent, dead and buried. this is for a myriad of reasons, though for me and everyone i know, it has a lot to do with backstory, or the idea that family ties are going to cramp our style or get in the way of our dream life and the plot. but, for anyone who’s interested, let’s flip the script (pun intended) and talk about why creating an original, unique family for your desired reality can actually make your experience richer, more meaningful, and a whole lot more fun !!

WHY KEEP THE FAMILY DRAMA?

first off, let’s address the elephant in the room: family can be a lot. but scripting them out entirely can be like throwing the baby out with the bathwater !! there’s tons of potential to consider there. a family offers plenty of opportunities to add depth, lore, and a whole bunch of emotional layers to your DR. think about it—what’s a life without a little family drama, a bit of cozy love, or even a quirky aunt who always brings the laughs? it doesn’t have to be a big, happy family—it can be whatever you feel like you need, whatever fits

HOW TO BUILD YOUR DR FAMILY

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— SIZE MATTERS ( but not really ) .　　. 　 ˚　. when scripting your DR family, start with size. do you want a big, loud, chaotic family with siblings running around, or something closer to a small, tight-knit crew? maybe you’re an only child who’s the apple of your parents’ eyes, or perhaps you’re in the middle of a bustling household where everyone’s got a role to play. there’s no right or wrong—just what feels right for you, and what you feel like you need in that specific DR

— CHOOSE YOUR ROLES .　　. 　 ˚　. who’s in your family? a loving, supportive mom who’s your biggest cheerleader? a cool dad who’s kind of your best friend? maybe a set of grandparents who tell you the most insane stories about their youth, or a mouthy sibling who keeps you on your toes. think about the roles that would enrich your life in your DR. remember, these people are there to support your life, not unnecessarily complicate it

— CONNECTIONS .　　. 　 ˚　. now, here’s where it gets fun (in my opinion): your relationships. are you super close with your mom, the kind of close where you can endlessly gossip and have deep life talks? is your dad the type to give you space but always manages to have your back when it counts? maybe you have an insane sibling rivalry that spans over a decade. the relationships you script can add so much flavor to your DR—it’s all about creating connections that resonate with you, and support you in all the ways you want to be supported

FITTING INTO THE LORE ( making it make sense )

if your DR has a specific lore or world-building element ( Hogwarts, Marvel, etc. you know ), weave your family into it !! maybe your mom’s a legendary witch, or your dad’s a top Auror. perhaps your family runs a magical bakery, or you’re part of an ancient lineage with a complex magical or academic heritage. the point is, your family should feel at home in your DR, adding to the story rather than feeling like an afterthought that detracts from it

SOME IDEAS FOR YOUR DR FAMILY

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( just to get you started )

— MAGICAL LINEAGE .　　. 　 ˚　. your family has a rich history tied to your DR’s lore—maybe you’re descendants of a powerful wizard, or you’ve got a long-standing feud with another powerful family. drama

— ECCENTRIC GROUP .　　. 　 ˚　. a family full of eccentric or seemingly ridiculous people—a dad who invents magical gadgets, a mom who’s an expert potion maker, siblings who are always concocting some mischievous or downright strange plans

— TIGHT-KNIT TEAM .　　. 　 ˚　. quiet and likely unassuming—just a small, close family who’s been through everything together together. you lot might not be flashy, but their love and support are solid and you know you can always count on them

— CHAOTIC CLAN .　　. 　 ˚　. a massive, bustling family where everyone’s got their own unique role. maybe you’ve got siblings with vastly different personalities, parents that always have something insane to say, or aunts and uncles hailing from faraway places. family gatherings are always an ordeal

DON’T STRESS THE DETAILS

here’s the deal: scripting your DR family is about enhancing your experience, not stressing you out or detracting from all the things you wanna do. whether you want to create a sprawling family tree or just script a few key members, it’s all up to you. and remember—at the end of the day, your DR is personal to you. it’s about what makes you feel connected, supported, and ready to dive into the adventure of a lifetime

so, build that dream family !! whether they’re magical, mundane, or somewhere in between, totally supportive or bringing never-ending drama to spice things up, at the end of the day they’re there to add richness and depth to your DR. and trust me, it’ll make your journey all the more special if you let it !!

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(OH MY GOSH I ALMOST POSTED IN THE SKATERS COMMUNITYYY)

imma try to post some sketches of my dr self through a low functioning device and pure willpower

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MY FRIEND GOT SO EXCITED ON EPISODE 11 OF SK8 AND HUGGED ME I WAS SO CONFUSED AND HAPPY‼️‼️ AND WE CHEERED‼️‼️‼️

Anyways long story short I'm adding them to my sk8 dr THIS IS A MOMENT IN HISTORY💥💥💥

How does your DR family perceive you?

- PICK A CARD READING MADE BY @DAISYS-REALITY -

This was requested by one of my followers, I hope you enjoy it! 🤍 DR stands for desired reality and your 'DR family' ist the family you have in your desired reality. I guess you could also read this while having your 'normal' family in mind. But I was focusing more on the reality shifters and their DR families. If you like to read more PAC readings from me, feel free to check out my masterlist ! Also, for your information, I don't own any of these beautiful pictures, I just edited them a little.

PILE 1

six of pentacles + lamb + dragonfly + blue chalcedony 

Hello pile one! Your DR family sees you as a very giving person, someone who is generous with their time and energy (also perhaps with your money and talents). To them, you seem to like sharing what you have with your family. You invest in what you believe and in the future you want to live in. You seem very harmonious and very balanced. Or you bring harmony and balance to your DR family in their opinion. They appreciate you very much. Because there is this equal give and take energy with you, your DR family might also enjoy giving to you (ex. through financial support or gifts). You seem like someone who embraces the things coming into your life with such grace and ease - they might admire that aspect of yours. In their opinion, you’re a good listener and like a good friend to them (perhaps to your DR siblings if you have any). You never seem secretive with advice and you seem quite socially aware. You usually are very open with others/them as well but you also know when you should not overstep. They notice that you seem to enjoy the finer things in life. You might be quite sensitive. But the connection with you feels usually very intimate but also kind of laid-back if that makes sense. Your DR family also notices that you love making others feel comfortable and at home which they appreciate. You inspire them with your generosity. In their eyes, you have a kind heart and are very sincere. You usually don’t ask them for anything in return openly but they always want to give back to you.

Other aspects they see in you are that you are very peaceful, patient with them and honest. They are usually grateful for your advice because they see you as someone wise or someone who has an inner knowing. But you’re also good at listening to them (/to their problems etc.). They feel that you’re very gentle with them. When you’re out of balance they can see that you sometimes get quiet and timid and easily concerned with things. You might overthink a lot too in those times.

They also notice that you have a very active mind. You seem to be always mentally moving and changing. Sometimes your mind might be too busy and you struggle with concentrating but usually seem to have a very good perception of things! You also awaken a certain sense of wonder in your DR family with your energy. They think you are good at creating illusions - you might be very good at keeping a facade or it might be difficult at times for your DR family to clearly see what’s going on inside your head lol. Sometimes you seem restless, other times you seem still; sometimes you seem very dreamy and other times crystal clear. It’s a bit confusing for them. You might often be the one who can bring peaceful resolutions to conflicts whether inside or outside your DR family. It’s like you have this peaceful assertiveness and are very endurant. You’re good at guiding others and helping them with problems of negative thinking or self-doubt or emotional turmoil. Overall, you are someone joyful and very magical to them! They are grateful to have you and they respect you a lot as a person. ❤️

PILE 2

six of swords + hummingbird + green calcite 

Hello pile two! In your DR family’s eyes, you seem to go through a certain transition in your life. Times change with the rise of the tide and right now you’re doing your best to stay afloat. They acknowledge that. They know that change is not always easy (for you) but they think this is a necessary transition in your life. You sometimes go the difficult path to search for something ‘bigger’, something you strongly believe in. It’s not easy to describe but you seem to have this inner goal in mind which you’re striving for. They can see that new or strange environments might leave you feeling adrift especially without your core humans and the comfort of home. They want you to know that you can always come home to yourself when you start to feel overwhelmed. Of course you also always come to your DR home but they want you to know that leaving your home base will allow you to grow and expand in unexpected ways! Opportunities might have been limited in the past in your DR, and you ventured off to new territory to better your future. That’s how they see it. New land means a new perspective, as the environment shapes us into who we are.

Your DR family might think that traveling overall is a healing experience to you. Because you’re the type of person who focuses on the journey rather than the destination. They see you as someone who carries a mostly active, assertive but not aggressive energy! They might also just see you enjoying spending time outdoors.They think you are very self-accepting and easygoing but someone who is in the process of healing or focuses very much on healing and self-improvement. To them, you are a future-oriented person. Although you’ve gone through your fair share of challenges, you still choose to remain optimistic about what is yet to come. THey truly admire that aspect of yours. With your presence, you make them feel just as calm and mellow as you are. You appear not only positive but also very enthusiastic. You seem to have an endless amount of energy within you. Which might baffle them at times but they think you just learned how to nourish yourself correctly and how to gain your energy back - like for example through nature, creative activities or maybe even through exploring spirituality! The way you live your life seems sweet/abundant and your DR family thinks that the moments they spent together with you are worth savoring. 

Other aspects of yours which they notice are that you’re smart, curious and you love to learn! But sometimes when you’re in a bad mood, you can get a little pushy/insistent and maybe even sharp with your words (- which can hurt quite a bit). However, all in all, you provide energy and vitality for your DR family. But also calmness and compassion with your loving energy. They truly appreciate that. You have a healing energy and you improve the communication within your DR family bringing also transition from a stagnant to a positive situation. Your DR family cares a lot about you and is very grateful for your existence in their life. ❤️

PILE 3

ace of cups, the hierophant + dragon + green aventurine

Hello pile three! Your DR family sees you as this very creative and emotionally expressive person. Someone who flows freely, if that makes sense. They think you spread love in your DR family and always bring in refreshing opportunities. In their eyes, you have this desire for compassion and connection which inspires you to lend a helping hand to those in need. I feel like your DR family might not be very expressive or openly affectionate, perhaps that’s why they appreciate those traits so much more. They enjoy seeing you sharing your gifts with the world because you become much more open about who you are and the unique talents that you bring. They think your energy is contagious. You seem very generous with your affection and compassionate to them. Some might even think/assume you’re spiritually aware or even blessed. You inspire them. You seem to be always brimming with ideas and you can’t wait to put them into action. You have a kind of innocent vibe in certain aspects. It could also mean that some people of your DR family see you as somewhat naive maybe.

However, they also notice that you are pretty good at keeping your emotions contained, but also you don’t seem to be afraid to express yourself where appropriate.They think you are not cynical about the nature of humanity (like perhaps some other members of your family). Your DR family perceives you as someone who loves what they do for a living. Another thing they appreciate is that you treat the elderly with kindness!

You might be quite conventional actually. You might honor the traditions or rituals in your DR family and in your life. They like that about you. Those traditions might even help you feel grounded. They think you might be drawn towards joining a group or community that has certain rules you’d have to follow. And they believe that by joining, you broaden your scope and expand your knowledge. They assume that being a part of a community allows you to feel a sense of acceptance, unity and even an identity. You might be someone who likes looking at your lineage of ancestors or religion and doing research to shine light on the wisdom of the past. You seem to like absorbing as much information as you can. In their perception of you, you are wise and value your personal values a great deal, like you seem to be someone who identifies strongly with your belief system or religion, whatever you consider your “religion” or reality - for some of you, your “religion” may even be science and reason!  And this aspect plays a major role in your life, it may even be the center of your world. It influences your outlook and decision-making considerably. At least that’s how it seems to your DR family. I think your DR family consists of vastly different people (including you) and even though all of them are so different you somehow are able to make them all feel comfortable around you. They see that you like comfort, and you’re all about giving that experience to people. Your DR family believes that you’re non-judgmental and more interested in making everyone feel accommodated. They truly appreciate this about you. You are friendly and willing to listen, learn, and teach. You’re rarely interested in “converting” anyone to your belief system or lifestyle, you just want to be tolerated and, likewise, you tolerate others. In their eyes, you’re someone who leads by example, someone who is able to perceive ‘everything’ around them and who sees beauty everywhere. To them, you’re very intelligent and courageous with a strong inner fire. You’re a visionary and a guide. Your energy can be pretty grounding to others, and your DR family thinks that you bring stability into the family. You might have a tendency to overthink or ruminate over situations and get stuck in your mind but in those times your DR family is actually willing to help bring you back to your physical body and the present moment and your connection to your world/life/environment. 

You provide strength, confidence, courage, and even happiness to your DR family. As I said before, you inspire your family and your energy is contagious in their opinion. You renew their optimism for life and you push them to take action to acquire what they want in this world. And you also urge them to get out of their comfort zone and take on new opportunities. Your presence in their life helps them release old patterns, habits, and disappointments so new growth can take place. Your family learns a lot from you. You’re truly inspiring to them - I can’t say this often enough lol. All in all, your DR family has respect but also a lot of affection for you. They want you to know that even if they can’t express this very well, you are very dear to their heart. ❤️

no tumblr that’s not the nine im talking about either

what your s/o thinks about you !

+ your relationship

choose a painting above.

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disclaimer !! please don’t force messages to fit. i do a ton of readings & im sure if this one doesn’t fit, you will find one eventually that resonates. this is just a general reading :) ! ps this is also primarily for people who have not shifted yet but that doesn’t mean people who have shifted can’t get some insight on how their s/o feels about them !

sorry this reading is so late. i was on top of my game by posting this on the first of the month for a while. anywho ! happy late valentine’s day. may you consume all the gourmet chocolate & watch all the cheesy 2000’s strait to dvd romance movies you can find. sending you all a virtual bouquet of flowers. rose ? tulips ? your choice.

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🕊️ | dear pile one,

quite honestly based on the cards i pulled, your s/o puts you on a pedestal more then anything. they love that analytical, take nothing at face value aspect of you. while they celebrate it, they see it can become your detriment too. overthinking your every action, going “frame by frame” in life, can be tiring. you have a tendency to keep stuff in to appease others & not rock the boat, which they pick up on more then you think they do. this is someone intuitive & can sense your emotional wellbeing as if it was sentient. they want you to come to them. a caregiver at heart, wanting to soothe any insecurity or worry that floats around in the back of your head. while they may be awkward & stiff with their approach, they mean well despite struggle to execute the touchy-feely aspect to your relationship. they’re not as open as you are when it comes to emotions or trusting others. they’ve been burned in the past & for some of you that could mean literally. they’re the silent, sitting in a dark corner, the people watching type. they appreciate your input & how you always seem to open their eyes to new perspectives that they’d never come up with themselves which pulls them out of their funk.

the both of you make up a wing of a phoenix, always rising from the ashes of whatever hardship you may be facing together. the two of you are riddled with self doubts at times, teaching each other how to heal from trauma or let things go once & for all.

in summary with a few extra details ? they love you. like i said they see you as this light which they are not worthy of. with these last two cards & pure vibes im getting the picture that they had this perfectly curated “cool” aesthetic image to anyone looking in on them & when you came around that was shattered, leaving them vulnerable & scrambling to put the pieces back with old chewing gum & popsicle sticks. this person has a tendency to be secretive. never sneaky. not like hiding their phone screen or anything. more like not telling you things to upkeep that image they so desperately want for themselves. could be all smokes & mirrors to hide what’s really going on or maybe they just want you to think highly of them, the same way they think of you.

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🐩 | dear pile two,

they like to keep it light with you. it’s giving cat & mouse. on & off but you always end up together. a class project, a seating arrangement. you just look good together, aesthetically.

this person likes to pretend they’re nonchalant & don’t care as much as they really do. unlike pile one, they feel like they have nothing to hide from you. you’re both open books with one another. you have been to the depths of hell & the highest of heavens together. it.

they can get a little short & irritated. nothing a throwing a table lamp at a wall won’t fix, usually. not the best of methods to let out some steam but know none of that is directed at you. anger issues are very much present within this person. why this is relevant is because it impacts your relationship more then this person will ever admit. they have a vision, having carefully crafted a plan before you came into the picture & now that you’ve stumbled into their life it’s setting everything ablaze. a workaholic who is now scrambling carefully combing through their prospects & goals to make accommodations in the margins for your presence & that scares them sometimes. at times embarrassed that you have this imaginary grip on every aspect of their life. they want to buy a new car ? what’s your favorite color ? they’re hungry ? they’ll stop at your favorite place as an excuse to bring you your favorite dessert. they somehow hold everything together really well considering the unnecessary stress they put on themselves.

expect late nights & going to bed alone. when morning comes, arising with a bouquet of flowers being delicately placed on your bedside table with a handwritten note. chances are they’re probably in the kitchen doing the dishes you were to lazy to do the night prior. their love langue is very much acts of service. they really really do care. going to the ends of the earth to bring you your simplest of desires. weather that be leonardo da vinci's "salvator mundi” or a pair of shoes you saw in a vintage fashion magazine yesterday. it will show up perfectly perched on your bed on a random tuesday as a just because.

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🐇 | dear pile three,

deep, intense spiritual connection. literal fireworks erupt when you first locked eyes with them. you’re in tune with others emotions & can physically feel what the other feels. you’ve spent past lives together. very high school cheerleader x football player in a 90’s romcom. a slight delay in actually dating or tying the knot. the whole friends to lovers pipeline may be in the cards for you. at the very least, a slow burn type romance.

you two could’ve met traveling. maybe that’s something they do for work ? nonetheless, they seem very artistic. having a sketch book filled with drawings of you & your favorite things. a secret poet who writes poems about you & puts little hearts around your name like a lovesick school girl. a photographer who takes your photograph when you least expect it. not in a creepy way. they just like to look at you. except them to pick you up little things off the ground and present them to you like a small child. they like collecting rocks & see a really shiny one on the ground ? congratulations you are now a proud shiny rock owner ! they’re very sentimental & thoughtful like that. someone who has a little box of every item you’ve ever given them no matter how minuscule. you’re their home, which could’ve been something they’ve never had before & neglected to even think about before they ever met you. somethings does tells me they’re a little bit of an age gap. if not in the literal sense, one of you may be more mature then the other. an “old soul”. this could go for any aspect in your relationship. sense of humor, how petty they (or you) could be, interests, tastes.

the love talking to you. loveeeee talking in general. about things that interest them, about things that interest you, the news, a new book they read. a very curious mind of which they enjoy sharing with you. i mean like up until four in the morning talking to you in bed all while still under the impression that it’s nine o’clock at night. time absolutely flies when it comes to spending time with each other. most importantly ? they listen. really well. like their memory is pretty much photographic. said your favorite food was chocolate covered strawberries one time two years ago ? your fridge will never not have chocolate covered strawberries in it again for the rest of your life.

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