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disabled abuse survivor in need of financial aid

( date of writing: 9.29.2021 )

tired of making posts about this but i'm also tired of financially struggling. i'm an autistic and adhd developmental trauma/abuse survivor with multiple undiagnosed/untreated physical conditions (eds/ghsd, pots, chronic inflammation, etc.) that are currently making my life hell because getting said diagnosis and treatment is taking too long. my bf and i are both working full-time but can hardly afford anything other than bills since we moved away from his violently abusive family and into our own apartment.

we need help with paying said bills, plus:

groceries/food

furniture

cleaning supplies

gas money

pet care/vet bills

car repairs

household repairs

laundromat money

medication

eventual trauma therapy

credit card bills

( at the time of writing this, i'm still trying to raise some money for a wheelchair as well for when stuff is really bad but i have to leave the house and my cane doesn't do enough. )

working 30-40 hours a week (at a manual labor job, no less) is taking a huge toll on me due to illness and i have spent the majority of this year trying to get help without much progress. between work, stuff for classes, and being too sick / in pain / tired to do much either than lay in bed, i don't have the time or energy or physical capability to take care of myself (eating enough food, bathing, etc.) or take care of our apartment. i'm working on becoming a full-time artist when i can and i am currently accepting commissions and offering other some other services. otherwise, i'm also accepting donations:

p*ypal.me/sardonicdoll

v*nmo: @IthelLovik

c*shapp: $IthelLovik

thanks for reading and please reblog 💕

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For us

I've been feeling really badly recently. For some context I'm in my firmest semester at uni and I have got like good but not excellent grades, and this week, I mean yesterday, I got two news, first m, I must do my chemistry exam which I was hoping to exempt, but I didn't, and not only that, but also I wrote an email to my teacher and the teacher assistant cause I didn't get all the score I should have gotten in one of my answers of a test, but the assistant said that I was wrong and he corrected everything all right in my test, and just because he's a little piece of shut I will have to do the chemistry test. Second, I got my linear algebra grade and I got 70/100, so is not that bad, but a friend of mine told me he got a 100, in that moment I felt really down, because its like everything in my life the past months and even years feels like I can't be good enough, like the things I do are not perfect enough or my mind is not perfect or my thoughts or anything, and I the only way I don't feel like this is been the best or almost the best, cause is like i can never be the best, like I can't get to that high point where I do things in an extremely good form. Its so exhausting feeling like this, like you can never ve good enough, that you can't get people to notice you or if is bit about people noticing you is that I feel like I can't be as good as those who ate close to me, I can't be as good as them.

I got diagnosed with depression a few months ago and I was feeling really good, but the past weeks it feels like I've been slowing down, as if my mind my feeling my thoughts are being really slow and I can't do anything to motivate myself. I've tried texting to some people from school and uni m, but they don't answer at the moment (what i mean is when I'm feeling like talking or in a good mood) and when they do im really down and not wanting to test anybody cause I'm studying or im too down, for example I have this friend that I've known for 12 years and I haven't seen her since the beginning of the pandemic, but when she takes sooo long to reply to my messages, and it feels like everyone does, and I'm so tired of feeling lonely or people like ignoring me, I know I'm not the centre of the universe but it feels utterly sad and awful, the sensation that you are completely alone and there's no one there for you and your parents can't understand you, my mom can't understand these feelings and my dad is so isolated from the world that you can't talk to him without him saying "I feel better alone" I don't wanna be alone, I don't, but is like I am and I hate it... and I can't stop thinking that I shouldt feel this way and that nobody can gear me crying or see me sad... im so scared and afraid of showing my feelings, is like they are so wrong and I don't know what to do or feel

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...scroll down and see if it's here, because more than likely, someone else was/is wondering the same thing. even more likely, I already answered it multiple times and then decided to put it here for the next person :).

if it's not here, though, feel free to ask in my inbox or dm's.

to learn more on the topic of myself, you can always check out the about me page. to explore what fandoms I'm in and what I love to run my mouth talk about, then you should go to the heart. Continue reading further down to see the questions :).

confused because this might be the first page you stumble upon from my blog? head over to my intro to see why this page even exists lol.

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my status is comprised of three modes; active, hiatus, and offline.

[active] - I am online and currently working on/taking requests and whatnot.

[hiatus] - I am online, but I am taking a short break from writing and am just simply enjoying the app/am catching up with mutuals/friends.

[offline] - no longer taking any requests and no longer active on this account (this one is not going to be set into motion for a long time, don't worry lol).

𝐝𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐚 𝐬𝐞𝐭/𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐟𝐢𝐜 𝐬𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐝𝐮𝐥𝐞?

nope ! maybe one day, I will. but for now, I run solely on motivation, inspiration, and vibes✨️/ᐠ•˕•マ.

𝐝𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐝𝐨 𝐭𝐮𝐭𝐬?

yes, I do ! er, I can, if asked, of course :). like, if you wanted me to show you how I make my collages, or how I do something specific in an edit I made/posted, then yes, I could do a tutorial for that for you.

𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐟𝐚𝐧𝐟𝐢𝐜 𝐥𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐮𝐚𝐠𝐞?

this one is a little harder/complex to explain on my own, but for those who are totally and completely new to fanfic (hi, I can't believe you're starting on my account😭), I bet you're confused asf with some of the terms and stuff.

𝐝𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐝𝐨 𝐥𝐠𝐛𝐭𝐪+ 𝐰𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠?

I know I was when I first started out, so to help you out without you having to figure it out all on your own, here's a link to a page that explains all of the terms I personally use, how I use them, and what they mean :).

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/ᐠ-˕-マ~ my personal guide !

𝐰𝐞𝐥𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞... ! ...this is a guide that I have made that will help you decipher all of my little fanfic, edit, and shifting terms. keep in min

yes, if I didn't make that clear enough, I can, do, and will.

𝐝𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐝𝐨 𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐢𝐧𝐚𝐥/𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐰𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠/𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤?

in the sense that I don't use other people's words/a.i? Yes, it's all me. my writing, words, all of it.

in the sense that I make/create original stories and stuff like that? yes, I do, I write all kinds of stuff, not just fanfic lol.

𝐦𝐚𝐲 𝐈 𝐫𝐞𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤/𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐭𝐬?

yes, you can ! hit that repost button 'til your heart is content.

what you may NOT do is copy/paste my work onto other platforms/apps/websites, or claim something I created is your own or just not credit me at all. don't do to someone what you wouldn't want to happen to you.

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I’m being evicted

My landlord sued me for past rent because I was using a state run rental assistance program and it was taking too long for his liking. The court case was today and the judge sided with my landlord who wasnt even present.

  I was given 10 days to come up with 870 or move out

I am currently broke because i just used the last of my money to get to this court case and i will not be paid until the 17th Please. Any donation helps and I will happily draw anything requested, i just cannot guarantee when the art will be done as this is a very stressful situation and i dont know if im going to have a home or my job since that is tied to my home. Venmo: @  CallenGGoat CashApp: @ Calgoat96 Paypal: @ Goatsgalore96

What happened to Haiti?

I wrote an earlier piece on Haiti, mostly on the revolution and its leading founders Toussaint L’Overture. But the missing parts, like what happened after the revolution, who became president after L’Overture’s capture, and why Haiti still looks and is, impoverished must be answered.

So, independence day for Haiti from French rule is January 1st, 1804, when General Jean-Jacques Dessalines led his forces against Napoleon’s colonial army. Upon achieving liberation, Haiti became the first independent black republic and the first leading state to abolish slavery altogether. Except, in 1825, France’s government, alongside the U.S and other Western powers placed an embargo on Haiti unless they paid the French government $36 billion dollars as reparations to end slavery and keep their independence, and ever since, Haiti has been exploited for its natural resources and has fallen victim to international trade crimes by European and American ‘world powers’, putting the country in extreme economic decline.

‘‘Haiti has had a long volatile relationship with the United States and other foreign countries. For the past century or more, reforms have been imposed largely by outsiders, leaving the country with little ownership of the development of economic and political systems. Haitians were left with a ‘prickly nationalism’ distrust of foreigners, and an economy largely dependent on foreign assistance.’’

Haiti, last weekend, has had another major earthquake, this one’s magnitude at least 7.2, which destroyed ‘more than 7,000 homes and damaged 5,000 leaving about 30,000 families homeless, not to mention the death toll was up to 1,200, and over 6000 plus injured. Hospitals, schools, offices, and churches were decimated and badly damaged.’ The tropical storm that came before battered the southwestern side of the country and the earthquake made it worse. The country sits on a fault line between two tectonic plates, the North American and the Caribbean plates, which slide past each other over time. There are two other major faults along the island of Hispaniola, shared by Haiti and the Dominican Republic, and the southern one is known as the Enriquillo-Plantain Garden fault system., which the U.S Geological Survey says caused this one and the January 2010 earthquake.’’

Because the country has been in economic decline, and with the recent political unrest (the recent assassination of their former president, Jovenel Moise) its people have been unable to bounce back from the damages of previous earthquakes and are currently living through extreme humanitarian crises. There are thousands of people who are now homeless, in desperate need of aid, food, fresh drinking water, clothes, and socks. It is our responsibility to help, as the privileged who benefit from the exploitation of Haiti, to help and give back what we can.

P.S. Do not donate to the Red Cross. Instead, find and donate to trusted organizations whom you know your money is going directly to the Haitian citizens who will hopefully get basic needs and funding. If you cannot donate, then volunteer at organizations that are sourcing those basic needs. Read and research and spread the word to help.

1) https://batischool.org

2) About Us - Sow A Seed (sowaseedonline.org)

3) Responding to the Major Earthquake in Southern Haiti - Hope for Haiti