Hypersexuality - Blog Posts
hypersexual isn’t just being horny all the time btw please actually shut the fuck up
I noticed to liked my post about hypersexuality and I noticed you like cinnamoroll, so I thought I'd digitally give you a cinnamoroll plush.
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this kinda made me tear up. Tysm. I js cms because I was having the most disgusting thoughts about myself and others, and I didn't know how to stop it. idk if It's an episode or not, but his really js fucking made my night ♡♡♡♡♡ I can't thank you enough ♡♡♡
Hii there!! I was wondering I’m hoping this is related to ur page, but since u did a hc of Toby with hyper sexuality, is it totally alright if I ask what it means? I’ve heard it a lot but I’m not exactly sure what the meaning is and signs you have or smth, i hope I’m not bothering u!! Have a great day!!<3
HIHI!! Hypersexuality, also known as hypersexual disorder, or sex addiction, is an obsessive fixation on sex, sexual acts/behaviours, and sexual fantasies. It can be a response to trauma !
(a few) Signs you have it include:
☆ You have repeated and intense sexual fantasies, behaviours, and urges that take up a lot of your time, and feel as though they're beyond your control.
☆ Hypersexual behavior may involve excessive masturbation, having multiple sexual partners, excessively watching/reading pornography, or paying for sex.
☆ You have difficulty establishing and maintaining a relationship with other people, especially romantic partners.
☆ You use compulsive sexual behavior as an escape from other problems, such as loneliness, depression, anxiety or stress.
☆ You feel driven or have frequent urges to do certain sexual behaviours and feel a release of the tension afterward, but also feel shame, deep guilt, and regret as well.
☆ Continuing to engage in sexual behaviors and activities even after they’ve caused harm.
☆ You've tried without success to reduce or control your sexual fantasies, urges or behavior.
☆ Hypersexuality can begin as excessive masturbating while watching pornography, or generally wanting and needing sex, eventually developing into a constant need.
☆ Some have reported having suicidal ideation.
Important!!: Hypersexuality looks different in everyone who has the condition. While one person may mainly struggle with controlling their sexual fantasies, another might struggle with controlling the urge to carry out certain sexual acts like masturbation.
If you need help, reach out!! The national suicide prevention lifeline is 998 for support from a trained professional. Please call 911 if you or someone you know is in danger <3
Sources:
1: https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/hypersexuality#characteristics
2: https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/compulsive-sexual-behavior/symptoms-causes/syc-20360434
3. https://www.verywellmind.com/hypersexuality-definition-symptoms-treatment-5199535
We rlly should talk about this more.
Hypersexuals who were traumatized by one event, I love you.
Hypersexuals who were traumatized multiple times, I love you.
Hypersexuals who grew up in traumatic environments, I love you.
Hypersexuals who were traumatized at a young age, I love you.
Hypersexuals who were traumatized at an older age, I love you.
Hypersexuals who are still in traumatic situations, I love you.
Hypersexuals who said no, I love you.
Hypersexuals who "agreed to it", I love you.
Hypersexuals whose actions are greatly affected by these experiences, I love you.
Hypersexuals who cope by making jokes about their trauma, I love you.
Hypersexuals who cope by venting about their trauma, I love you.
Hypersexuals who talk with "inappropriate" language, I love you.
Hypersexuals who get uncomfortable talking with that language, I love you.
Hypersexuals who engage in risky behavior, I love you.
Hypersexuals who are scared of intimacy, I love you.
Hypersexuals who show these parts of themselves, I love you.
Hypersexuals who hide these parts of themselves, I love you.
Hypersexuals who are trying to learn healthy intimate boundaries, I love you.
Hypersexuals who struggle with intimate relationships, I love you.
Hypersexuals, I LOVE YOU!
Your experiences are valid, they'll always be valid, and they do not make you less lovable.
me, watching hazbin hotel: wow, I love most of these characters but I really feel this odd attachment to Angel!
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me, hours later, analyzing this fact and suddenly remembering the fact of my occasional hypersexuality stemming from being oversexualized since childhood: oh.. Oh no…..
Tw: sex mention, technically nsfw(?) Not in too much detail, but talk about sexual stuff. Also, slight(?) exotrauma to do with sexual trauma. Hypersexuality and sex repulsion (probably not technically tw/cw but still)
Edit: We mostly try and keep more nsfw stuff off of our blog and account, but yeah.
Do any beings have tips for dealing with hypersexuality and sex repulsion at the same time? (Also, just tips for hypersexuality that don't involve actually "giving into the urges" [that's probably not the right phrasing, but we are tired and dumb rn]).
This shit is so fucking annoying and what makes it even worse is that as far as any of us know in this life and body we never went through sexual trauma, but some of us (overall pack) did in past lives. (All of us in the ShaySubpack did experience it).
- Shay 🐾
I love 'bad' mentally ill people
I love people who struggle with violent thoughts and urges
I love people with no empathy, who can't 'make up' for it in compassion
I love people who's dissociation makes them flakey and distant
I love people who's mood swings get in the way of making friends
I love people with anger issues, and psychosis, and hypersexuality, and everyone who's ever been seen as 'scary' for their diagnosis or symptoms