See I think a portion of NLTOG thoughts are an attempt to keep a sense of self while being denied humanity. 'You're not like us! You're weird, you're a freak, we don't want you around unfeminine girl!' 'You're right. I'm not like you, I'm better' 'Wait, no you were supposed to maintain a sense of sisterhood with us despite our bullying and either learn to conform to feminine beauty standards and interests or to loathe yourself for your inability and/or lack of desire to be 'normal.''