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7 months ago

You know, sometimes I struggle to call myself disabled. And it’s not because I think the word “disabled” is inherently negative or demeaning. (I’ve long since grown out of that mindset.)

Really, half the time I feel like, “well, I can still hold my own in hearing spaces! I don’t even use aids! I don’t have it that bad. I’m not disabled enough.”

But even so, if I’m not focusing hard on the person speaking to me, I probably wont be able to understand them.

If a room has background noise, or if someone is standing on my left side, hearing them will basically be impossible.

If people aren’t right in front of me they really have to project or else I won’t be able to understand a word they say.

It takes so much energy every day to make sure I’m hearing and understanding everything around me.

I am disabled.

Yet general society has pushed the narrative that disabled people cannot function ever. To truly count as disabled, you must always be cared for. You must always be in a wheelchair. You must always have aids. If your struggle isn’t immediately obvious, are you really disabled?

And that’s bullshit to me. Because all it leads to is being infantilized, looked down upon, and scrutinized endlessly. It’s especially bad for those who are neurodivergent or otherwise mentally disabled.

We shouldn’t have to live like that. We shouldn’t have to justify and prove our suffering to everyone we meet so we can get the accommodations we need. We shouldn’t have to be looked down upon for being disabled.


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10 months ago

Be The Woman Inside

In honor of a friend that left us too soon; and to anyone reading this that might feel isolated and unloved.

There are many people in this world capable of loving you exactly the way you are. There are many male friends that you can have that will never judge you for wanting to be a woman, a slut, a housewife, or whatever you want to be. Be yourself, become what you want to be. But be; for the world's sake, please continue being.


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1 month ago

Ho'oponopono – I love you, and I find myself again,The 4/4 pillars of Ho’oponopono Happy easter


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1 year ago

People say 'you deserve love just like everyone else' and that is 100% true but we need to discuss WHY more often. It's because God loves you. That's what gives you value. God didn't have to love us, but He chose to, because He decided that we should all have value. And no matter whether you've done the most heinous crimes ever, or what you're suicidal status is, what your beliefs are, etc. He loves YOU. GOD LOVES [INSERT YOUR NAME HERE] Y'know, cause He's awesome like that.


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2 years ago
So I’m Not Really Good At Art And That When I Really Do Make It It Usually Takes Me A Couple Months.

So I’m not really good at art and that when I really do make it it usually takes me a couple months. And I meant to do this on the first but I didn’t so I’m doing it a little bit late but happy pride month guys. I know you’ve probably heard this from everybody but I support who you are and who you love.  I wanted to make a comment about this because I have a friend who has came out to their family and they don’t support him. So I wanted to say remember family isn’t just by blood it can be people you’re just comfortable with to. I’m a little off subject and I know that. But if you feel comfortable saying that then that’s fine if you don’t feel comfortable saying that you need to work up the courage, that’s fine too. But no, there are people who do support you even if it does take a bit and a lot of time to figure out who those people are. And I know you’ve probably heard this from a lot of people in that it probably doesn’t help that you just hearing it from a random person. BTW, I cannot blame you either way. Just know that you are supported for who you are. 

Also, if you don’t want to hear me, keep talking about this each day you might want on. Follow me now. Because I’m most likely gonna make a lot more comics this next month considering this is a lot of my family . So I’m gonna make a lot of comments 

Also, I just love the fact that I found a gift that shows all flags. I think I only know like 5-6 flags guys 


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